Saturday, April 22, 2023

Maybe the whirlwind exodus wasn’t the best idea…

 I’m sitting here, on the eve of our arrival to Las Cruces, absolutely exhausted and thinking about how I could have managed this exodus better. I thought I had everything set up so perfectly and was amazed that it’s all fallen into place. It all worked just as planned - I was holding my breath and counting my lucky stars and giving copious amounts of thanks…but I truly manifested this entire thing and the universe and all the wonderful people in our lives participated and helped us get to tomorrow. But, we are exhausted! Coming off of a 3 week cold and having to drive 2,200 miles in 12 days shlepping stuff in and out of the car, how many times?! Well, let’s see! 

First Stop - Loreto, Coco’s Cabanas - great big fridge

Second  Stop - Ignacio Springs B&B, 2 nights - no fridge, ice maintenance

Third Stop - Debb & Mike’s in San Felipe, 2 nights - huge fridge and freezer, major haul in of coolers

Fourth Stop - Cousin Cher’s in Indio, 4 nights - major haul in of everything, change suitcase for cooler temps

Fifth Stop - Blas and Amanda’s in Tucson - was gifted a bag of ice so we could do cooler maintenance

Sixth Stop - Eddie’s casa in Albuquerque, 2 nights - fuck the coolers!!

Tomorrow night - home for the next five-six months!!

We got to see the fam in Palm Desert and I spent time with Justice, Lauryn did our hair, and took us out for the best burgers ever at Cowboy Cantina. Cher and I got to hang out a lot, which was the best, and she took me to a Bruno Mars cover band show that was super fun, Got to see my mom everyday and she’s doing so well. Very busy with organizing book group and mah jongg where she’s living now. It was fun celebrating 420 with Blas and Amanda, although it was just another day for us! Next year we hope to partake in the big celebration that Las Cruces did this year. We spent earth day weekend in ABQ at the launch of the Vegan Village where we also met up with DUHHH, aka Judy - a hash friend we know from Tahoe Relays. But there’s definitely a price for this….THIS is exactly why we stopped full-time rv-ing!! We can’t help ourselves, or rather, I can’t help myself. 

So we’ll see how this all plays out….I have heard that people are wondering why we left LB so I’ll be sure to write a bit about that next #kassonswildride 




Blas and Amanda



San Felipe

My fav cuz, Cher

Oops, out of order





4:20 Arrival in Tucson! On 4/20

Another out of order, cousin Cher



Wednesday, April 12, 2023

On the road again…

 We left Los Barriles Tuesday morning and had an easy ride to Loreto. For the first time EVERRRR Bill stopped for coffee in Ciudad Constitución….it seems like every time we drive through this town, aside from making sure we stop at every single corner, whether you can see a stop sign or not, I’ve wanted to stop for a coffee. Bill just isn’t into unplanned stops…when we were full-time rv-ing I understood that it was difficult to do a random unplanned stop while driving a 35’ motorhome and towing a car & bikes, but come on, man, we’re down to just this little truck now! Well, to my amazement he stopped at one of the many, many Coffee Star’s and they had all kinds of plant-milks too! He said it was now or never as we won’t be doing this drive again! 

We stayed the night at Coco’s Cabanas, which we really like. Full kitchen, nice pool and an easy walk to the malecón and town square.


Today we have a short 3-1/2 hour drive to San Ignacio to stay at Ignacio Springs B&B along the river in one of their cool luxury yurts. I have always wanted to stay there but the timing never worked out, but this time of year it should be lovely!

Monday, March 6, 2023

New adventures on the horizon!!

MARCH 2023 It was just about this time, seven years ago, that we moved into our newly built casita. Mid-March, in the middle of tax season and I had come down with the flu. Bill had to finish up the move on his own as I lay in bed, of no use to anyone. And here we are again, packing up mid-March - this time to leave our beloved city of Los Barriles. Yes, the time has come to move on.

APRIL 2023 Fast forward one month, and yes, not only did I get sick, really sick, but Bill did too! Luckily for us it was after we packed up all of our belongings and moved out of our beloved casita. We sold her to a lovely couple from BC, the third couple to look at the place in 2 days and boom, it wasn’t ours any more. They were very gracious and allowed us to stay for a month+ while I finished up tax season as quickly as I could and started packing shit up! I just did a little bit each day, sometimes more, occasionally not at all…but then the universe just took over and there was nothing we could do but get swept along with the momentum.

I started searching on the internet for a town, not too big and not too small…in a blue state, where pot was legal and there were vegan options in the restaurants. Where we were within an hour of Costco and a major airport and if there were a few Jews and Burners we would be golden. Oh and actually the most important things of all - weather and cost of living. I kept getting led to Las Cruces and we did like Prescott, AZ too but was afraid it was a little too cold in the winter, oh and then we found out the median price of homes there. So we zeroed in on Las Cruces and attempted to educate ourselves.

I put out a call to my facebook friends to see if anyone was from there or knew someone and Jennifer and Joe Flower responded. Jennifer connected us to their friends who lived there and a match was made! I took one look at her friend’s Facebook profile pic and BINGO!

After we met over the phone and chatted a bit I find out that they spend 6 months in Europe every year and were going to leave the end of April and would be happy to rent to us directly. We committed to 5 months with the option for the 6th down the road and began to make plans. We were invited to come early to stay as their guests and they are having a little cocktail party for us to meet a few neighbors and friends. We are beyond happy at this development, and the casa is in old town Mesilla, walking distance to everything - post office, cafes, restaurants etc.

Then I had to start thinking about how to get our stuff north, we threw around the idea to buy a trailer and haul it ourselves but quickly dispelled of that idea, then I started looking at costs for cross border movers, STARTING at $3000 and we don’t have but a piece or two of furniture, and a shit ton of bins and boxes. Friends Jon and Carol suggested I put it out on the Everything Los Barriles FB page to see if someone had an empty trailer going north that could swing by Las Cruces! I went right home after dinner at their home and posted on FB, within 2 minutes I had a message from someone I didn’t know, but had messaged with before about some Spanish classes, so I knew “of” this woman but didn’t know her. She said we are bringing down furniture for our new home in a 16’ trailer and it’s empty coming home to Idaho and we’d be happy to drop your stuff off! OMG this shit doesn’t happen, too many awesome people…overwhelmingly kind people. The trick with that I needed a place to move all of our shit to while we waited for them to get down here. Put that one out to the universe and neighbors, Sten and Susan offered their garage, WOW, right?! Our long-time friends, Mike and Cathy Perkins had offered their lovely 1 bedroom casita for us to stay however long we needed it. They are just the best and most gracious of all people, and that’s saying a lot because so, so many people In Los Barriles have been so incredibly kind and loving and helpful. Man - we went out to dinner last night to La Casita for our “last supper” and I was greeted by name and said he knew we were leaving and that they felt very honored that we had chosen to spend the evening there, at the end of our meal they gifted us a dessert of our choice….just wow. I will miss this but we are ready for a new adventure and to put down some roots somewhere where we can ride out the next….


A few pics of our last days in LB…because of our illness we had to cancel our going away beach party and only had a few days to say goodbye